Made a dead dad joke at my buddy's cookout and the grill went silent for 10 seconds
His father passed in March and I still cracked a "guess your dad's not manning the grill anymore" line without thinking. Three people laughed, two looked at their shoes, and my buddy just flipped a burger and said nothing. Is there a grace period after a loss where the jokes are off limits, or is it all just about who's telling them and how?
Used to figure grief jokes were fine as long as the person telling them knew the guy well enough. Then I watched a friend go quiet for a whole hour after one, and now I get that the widow or the son sets the clock, not the calendar.