I tried the 'just be yourself' advice for a month, then switched to a script from a dating coach. The results were... not what I expected.

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Honestly, the script thing never sat right with me (feels like putting on a costume). Being yourself is messy, but at least it's real, you know?

caseythompson13d ago

Totally get what you mean about the costume feeling. It's like you're playing a part instead of having a real talk. That fake vibe comes through eventually and just makes things weird. Real connections need the messy, honest stuff, not a perfect performance. Trying to follow a script kills any chance of a genuine moment.

karencampbell12d ago

Actually, the right script is just a tool to get past the initial awkwardness. It can help you relax enough for the real you to come out later.

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