Stop posting first date locations that require a costume change
Met a guy who said "casual drinks" then showed up in a full suit at a brewery. I was in ripped jeans and work boots. He spent the whole night mansplaining craft beer to the bartender. Meanwhile my friend matched with someone who said "coffee" and it was at a fancy rooftop bar with a dress code. She got turned away at the door. We both deleted the apps for a month after that. Why do people do this? If you pick a place, be honest about what you're wearing. Has anyone else had a date where the spot and the vibe were totally different from what they agreed on?
Hate when people act like the location is a hint instead of just SAYING the vibe. It's like the same energy as someone posting a fancy restaurant pic but the caption says "casual Tuesday" like no, that's a whole production. We all just want to know if we're wearing jeans or a damn tuxedo before we leave the house.