Finally said no to my sister's wedding after 5 years of her control trips
I picked staying home over being her free wedding coordinator in Tampa, and she blew up my phone for 3 hours about it. Has anyone else had a sibling act like skipping their circus means you hate them?
Saw a post the other day about how weddings bring out the worst in people, especially when one family member decides everyone else is basically staff. Five years of being treated like that is way past your limit, and going to Tampa just to be bossed around sounds miserable. Good on you for drawing the line, she'll either get over it or she won't, but that's on her not you.