F
13

Just figured out the 3-photo trick for first messages

I was sending these long intros on Hinge and getting zero replies. Then I started only sending messages about the third photo in their profile, and my response rate went up to like 40% in 2 weeks. Anyone else notice people put the most interesting stuff there?
3 comments

Log in to join the discussion

Log In
3 Comments
xena_bailey18
The third photo is where people hide all their personality.
6
gray875
gray87511d ago
Heard some psychology podcast talk about this exact thing... said people use those group shots to blend in and not have their real self show. Like you see someone with five friends in a bar photo and you still can't tell what they're actually about. Then you scroll to their solo shots and it's just the same filtered face from the same angle every time. Makes you wonder what they're hiding behind all that noise.
5
michaelgrant
Is that third photo thing just a coincidence or is everyone doing it now?
2