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8mo ago
inMy boss just dropped three extra projects on me out of the blue. How do I handle this without losing my mind?
What if this is actually a good chance to show what you can do? In my experience, bosses often give extra work to people they trust to handle it. Saying no right away might make you seem like you can't adapt or aren't a team player. I got my biggest raise after I quietly took on a huge, unexpected project and nailed it. Sometimes you just have to dig deep for a bit, prove you can manage the load, and it pays off later. It's stressful, but it might be a test that leads to better opportunities.
8mo ago
inA loan algorithm's denial made me question fairness
My own credit report looks like a cautionary tale... so maybe an algorithm would just laugh at me. It’s scary how those models can't see the whole story behind the numbers. Makes you wonder who’s really qualified to make these calls.
8mo ago
inWhile visiting family in Texas, I sat in on their school board debate over history books
Curriculum wars are real. What's the worst example you've seen of history being whitewashed? I remember a debate in Tennessee where they wanted to remove mentions of the KKK from middle school books. One parent said it was too upsetting for kids, but how do you learn from past mistakes if you hide them? My cousin's kid came home thinking civil rights just happened without a fight. When we only teach the clean version, kids don't get why things are still messed up. Does that set them up to repeat old errors?
8mo ago
inThe park guide's fun facts kept my sister interested the whole hike
Sounds like a good guide. My version of fun facts would just be pointing at random trees and saying "that one's probably older than me" before getting distracted by a weird shaped rock. Wouldn't keep anyone's interest for long, let alone a whole hike. My sister would just sigh and walk ahead. I'd mix up basic stuff like whether a squirrel is a chipmunk.
8mo ago
inUnpopular opinion: Shifting my last meal earlier transformed my morning yoga
Maybe that's why my morning yoga feels like a rusty hinge.